Civil Discourse and Questioning

Civil Discourse and Questioning

The political season is off and running! I love the passion and opportunity to hear about future ideas and plans for our country (state and community). High season for civil discourse (I hope!). Asking questions to better understand the opinions and life experiences of those in our community and country is key. I have been thinking about what questions I have to expand my understanding, which has lead to more reading of documents and articles. How can we stay civil with a country so divided? Then I found and was intrigued by the National Association of School Psychologists statement on violence ( One of the six statements was that “Other people’s perspectives matter”.

Other people’s perspectives matter. The very nature of civil disagreement is to acknowledge respectfully the views and experiences of other people and learn from differing perspectives. Adults can start by reflecting on their own experiences and how these shape their interactions and reactions. They can help children to do the same and ask questions of each other, rather than hurl accusations. Adults can create safe spaces for youth to share their feelings and concerns while also exploring how they might feel and act if they were in someone else’s shoes.”

This document is for schools, however, I believe there is a societal lesson. We should encourage individuals to share their lived experience, how these experiences “shape their interactions and reactions”. Which leads me to ponder,,, even question.

Where are the places, who are the people, and how can we engage in civil discourse? Where do we start?


2 Comments Add yours

  1. Dee Sabol says:

    We have been buzzing around this question for 6 months, weaving relationships, forming partnerships, and bouncing numerous options off everyone in sight. And there is ACTION around building trust and respect – both needed in order to listen and hear one another. We need a challenge that we can extend to places where we gather, daring us to cross the aisle and converse with those with differing viewpoints. Maybe we could come up with incentives? Not direct incentives, but what about gifts to charities in an organization’s name? YOU host another group with dissimilar views, WE pledge service hours or money to the charity of your choice. so…who is WE? Dunno yet.

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    1. jgangeness says:

      Let’s visit! I would love to support the plan to action. You rock Dee!!!!


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